Comments on: i’ll stay dangerous

By: nezua

nezua — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 22:53:49 +0000

aighmeigh, there are certain viewpoints hard to assert, or times that are hard to assert them, and i can see that being one of them. guess i needed to work through it anyway. but i appreciate your telling me now.

i’m far far far from the point where i think i’d actually ever want any more children. its not about that for me. i have, as they say, been fruitful. but yeah…permanent. invasive. i’m not down with surgery unless necessary, really. i just think yeah. not unless needed for serious reasons. they say its not permanent but a little reading shows you its best to assume it is.

ultimately, all messing with the body like that is taking some kind of risk. and…these are not things i want to gamble with. i’d rather trust mother nature and fate…aside from taking other measures of course.

By: nezua

nezua — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 22:48:45 +0000

thank you sweet leaf.

By: aighmeigh

aighmeigh — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 22:38:34 +0000

when i read the post that lead to this, i almost commented… almost stated some blather about never being able to tell what the future holds ’cause if we could most of us would stop living to avoid the pain… about how our children are not mistakes and that unplanned does not mean unwanted (i know that one from experience!)… but i thought better of it because there’s no way for me to put it that doesn’t sound ridiculously trite, but whatever.

as an aside, i know a number of young women who chose sterilization and regret it wholeheartedly.

you’re young and it’s just so… permanent and invasive. back to my first point, you never know what the future’s going to bring… who knows… you may get to a point in your future where you’re wanting to plan for *more* children!

By: sweetleaf

sweetleaf — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 20:31:58 +0000

i like it. yes stay whole, stay dangerous, and what you got – pass it on!
wayward seeds unite…it is where i belong